As far as suing the counselor – Right now it is her and my ex’s word against me.
However once you bring it to court – She and the ex will be required to testify and give proof to her claim that I am not mediation material. The counselor’s notes would be supeona’d. Already I have talked with a different lawyer and she stated I already have sufficient evidence to have the counselor’s license to be revoked. Now as far as job loss being a possibility – it is because I have had to take time out to get the court items ready.
And as true with almost all companies, they only tolerate so much before letting people go. With all of the things that are going on I am pretty sure that the ex is wishing she had mediated now. I will keep club posted as to the progress if that will be helpful to others going through this process.